Your Boundaries Are a Love Language

You don’t need another red flag to learn the lesson.

You don’t need to shrink, explain, over-function or tolerate what feels heavy.

You need boundaries.
Rooted not in fear, but in f*cking reverence.

Because when you really start loving yourself?

You stop negotiating with people who don’t.

You stop justifying your magic to people who can’t hold it.

You stop over-giving, over-proving, over-staying.

And babe, that’s not being “too much.”
That’s being finally in your f*cking power.

They say:
"This is what it looks like to be in my world."
"This is how I honour myself, and you."
"This is love, with a backbone."

OFH invitation:
Where are you still abandoning yourself to be loved?

Name it. Reclaim it.
Then draw the damn line, with softness, with certainty, with self-trust.

Because when your love includes you
everything changes.

M x