You Don’t Need to “Fix” Yourself to Feel Worthy.

Healing isn’t a prerequisite for happiness. You get to feel it now.

There’s this quiet lie most of us internalised.

That we have to wait until we’re fully healed, emotionally stable, wildly successful, high-vibe and glowing… before we’re allowed to feel joy.


Before we can be seen.
Before we can choose ourselves.

But babe — that’s the conditioning talking.
That’s capitalism.
That’s patriarchy.
That’s every self-help book that forgot your soul.

The truth?

You don’t have to “fix” your life to live it.
You don’t need to be more healed to be happy.
You don’t need to become someone else to finally feel like enough.

OFH isn’t about becoming some perfect, polished version of yourself.
It’s about making room for the you who exists right now.
Messy. Magic. In the middle of it all.

When you stop treating yourself like a problem to solve
You start living like a woman who trusts herself through every single phase.


OFH Prompt:
What’s the first thing you’d delete from your calendar if alignment was your strategy?

Let go of the pressure.
Let in the softness.
Let yourself be loved by your own presence.

This version of you is sacred.
Not someday.
Today.

M x