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The Joy of Letting Sh*t Be Unresolved.
What if closure is overrated
We’ve been taught to chase closure.
To tie everything up in a neat little bow.
To fix.
To explain.
To make it make sense.
But real life doesn’t always work like that.
Sometimes the healing is in the not knowing.
In the text that never came.
In the apology you never got.
In the chapter that closed without your permission.
OFH isn’t about pretending that doesn’t hurt.
It’s about learning to breathe in the in-between.
To find peace without answers.
To trust that your wholeness doesn’t depend on resolution.
Let the conversation stay open.
Let the ending be imperfect.
Let the loose thread dangle.
You’re not broken because something didn’t wrap up clean.
You’re brave for living anyway.
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OFH invitation:
Where can you let it be unresolved — and still choose peace?
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