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Stop Taking Advice from Unhappy People
Whose voice are you following?
If they don’t have the life you want —
why the f*ck are you listening to them?
Your parents.
Your friends.
Society.
Everyone’s got opinions.
But most of them are just projections wrapped in concern.
They call it logic.
You call it love.
But underneath it?
It’s fear.
Fear of failure.
Fear of freedom.
Fear of you becoming someone they don’t recognise.
Unhappy people hand out limitations like party favours.
Wrapped in “realism.”
Laced with “protection.”
Rooted in their own unhealed s*ht.
But their fear isn’t your future.
Be ruthless.
Not cruel.
Clear.
Only take advice from people who are living in alignment.
Who’ve done what you’re scared to do.
Who know what it costs to choose themselves — and did it anyway.
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OFH reminder:
Your life gets louder when you turn them down.
Not out of rebellion — but out of reverence.
You were never meant to fit inside their fears.
You came here to live by your own truth,
not their templates.
Start to OFH
M x