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No More Choosing Sides
Grief and joy can hold hands. That’s the revolution.
You don’t need to choose between joy and grief.
OFH holds both. Always has.
This isn’t about fixing or filtering your feelings.
It’s about letting all of you be here.
The rage.
The radiance.
The parts that ache.
The parts that soar.
Shadow work isn’t punishment.
It’s permission.
To bleed and bloom.
To weep in the bath and still call yourself powerful.
To hold your heart with both hands and not apologise for its weight.
Emotional wholeness means this:
Nothing is exiled.
Everything belongs.
Your light is valid.
Your darkness is sacred.
You are not too much.
OFH Moment (invitation):
What if wholeness isn’t something to reach...
but something you already are?
Let that land.
Let that lead.
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