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- F*ck the Formula. Think For Yourself.
F*ck the Formula. Think For Yourself.
Your truth > their template. Always.
You weren’t born to copy and paste your life.
You were born to question it.
To tear down the rules.
To ask “but does this feel like me?”
Because sacred creativity doesn’t come from following someone else’s path.
It comes from burning the f*cking map and listening inward instead.
This is the soul of OFH:
Not just doing what’s expected.
Not building a life that looks right but feels wrong.
Not outsourcing your knowing to someone who’s louder but less honest.
You don’t need a guru.
You need a mirror.
And a moment of radical self-inquiry.
The most dangerous thing you can do is let someone else’s conclusion become your compass.
Check the beliefs you’re living by.
Are they yours?
Or did you inherit them from a world that benefits from your compliance?
Choose one area of your life - love, work, wellness, money.
And ask:
What am I doing here because I think I should… instead of because it’s true for me?
Then sit with it.
Let the unraveling begin.
That’s where your real creation starts. 🌀
M x